Never apologize for how you feel. No one can control how they feel. The sun doesn’t apologize for being the sun. The rain doesn’t say sorry for falling. Feelings just are
Date someone who is interested in you. I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word you write. Someone who wants hear every note of your favourite song, and watch every scene of your favourite movie. Someone wants to find every scar upon your body, and learn where each one came from. Someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. There is a difference between attraction and interest. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.
I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations.
I know now that we never get over great losses; we absorb them, and they carve us into different, often kinder, creatures.
That’s the thing about love… those of us that need it the most, push it away the hardest
Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish, it makes you indestructible.